Hey My Gee,

How are you doing, my gee?

It’s been quite a sad few days—Nigeria is bleeding, and Benue is bleeding. The massacre of over 200 people in Benue is one of the latest tragic outcomes of the growing insecurity in the country. Banditry and terrorist attacks have plagued certain parts of Nigeria for several years now.

Yet, the government is putting little to no effort into solving the problem anytime soon. It was reported that the president visited Benue on the 18th of this month to mourn with the affected communities. However, the governor of Benue saw it fit to organize a cultural welcome for the president—during a time of mourning and terror.

Well, that says a lot about the mindset of our political leaders. May God be with us all. Amen.

So over the weekend, I was watching a documentary on YouTube—it was about Liverpool’s goalkeeper, Alisson Becker. As many of you already know, I’m a proud Liverpool fan (You’ll Never Walk Alone).

During the documentary, someone described him as a person who doesn’t talk much—but when he does, everyone listens.

After hearing that line, I was instantly struck with the idea to write about that very statement.

In simpler terms, it means, “You don’t have to be the loudest, but make sure everyone listens when you speak.”

So, today’s newsletter is going to shed light on how you can become that kind of person.

But before we dive into today’s main theme, there’s something interesting I came across on X (formerly known as Twitter).

It was a really cool prompt, so I decided to feed it into ChatGPT—along with an image of myself—and the result was stunning.

See for yourself.

At the end of today’s newsletter, I’ll share the exact prompt I used so you can create an awesome image just like mine. AI is truly on a whole different level.

Now, to what I initially wanted to discuss.

You don't have to be the loudest... but make sure everyone listens when you speak...

We live in a world where most people don't listen to understand—they listen with the intent to reply. — Stephen R. Covey

This quote comes from one of the greatest minds of our time. Our eagerness to always respond or react to what we hear often turns us into the loudest person in the room. But being loud doesn’t always carry substance—just noise that people tune out.

Great people listen to understand. They act when necessary, not just to react. And by doing so, they often offer substance—something people can actually learn from or be inspired by.

It might sound simple, maybe even cliché, but it’s really just common sense. The society we live in today rewards the noisemakers. To be heard, you have to be loud—and most times, it feels like the loudest voice always wins. People have started associating loudness with being heard, but let’s be real: that’s total bullshit.

You can even see this in our taste in music as a society. The loud, trendy songs always get the most attention. But that attention usually lasts just a few weeks—maybe a couple of months at best. Why? Because there’s always another loud vibe in town.

Meanwhile, the silent and slower songs—the ones with remarkable rhythm and meaningful lyrics—tend to stick around much longer. So long, in fact, that we call them Evergreen songs because they match every timeline and always bring something valuable when played. To be clear, sometimes it’s not about how loud you are—it’s about the value and weight your words carry.

Let’s take a look at the corporate world and real-life settings. In the workplace, in meetings, and even in relationships, you’ll always find two types of people: the loud ones and the silent ones.

When we come across the loud ones, we often assume they’re the smartest—simply because they make their presence known. But in reality, they’re often just the most anxious.

Some people in the workplace believe you have to be known, visible, and have a say in every conversation to be seen as smart or outspoken. But here’s the truth: they often undermine the power of observation, the strength in silence, and the impact of intention.

If there’s ever a need to be loud, let it be through your actions—because, like they always say, actions speak louder than words.

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you have to be an introvert. But I respect the silent grinders. And if you’re a deep thinker, this is for you.

Now you might ask, “So should we stay silent forever?”

No—absolutely not.

Being a deep thinker, a careful observer, or a silent grinder doesn’t mean staying quiet forever. It’s about picking your moment.

The rain can fall all day, and people might not care. But when thunder strikes, everyone pauses. Everyone feels it—even if it’s just for a few seconds.

That’s the essence of this newsletter: to show you the power of value-driven communication. And that only happens when you’re someone who listens to understand, not just to reply or react.

So how do people find value in your communication or interaction?

First, say less, but mean more. Speak with clarity, not just passion—because passion, if unchecked, can become noise. Let people associate your words with wisdom and impact—that’s where your power is.

Ever noticed that one person in a group who barely talks, but when they do, it ends the argument? I’ve seen that scenario play out more times than I can count. In fact, I’ve lived it.

I’ve been in groups where I barely talk—but I observe. And when I finally have something to say, people give me the stage, and they actually listen. I’m not bragging—it’s just always been who I am.

On the flip side, I’ve also been in spaces where I’m the loudest. And even then, I still find the right time to drop something meaningful. And guess what? People listen.

Why? Because even in the middle of all that noise, I still dropped substance.

To all my subscribers and readers out there:

To the ones who are always scared to speak up.

To the ones seeking attention at all costs.

To the ones who constantly feel overlooked and neglected.

Trust me, I know how it feels. It might sound strange coming from me—because I’m still in that "figuring out my life" phase. I haven’t exactly made any huge progress after school. But again… I know how it feels.

So here’s my advice: Work on your message, not just its volume. Build in silence. Join the silent grinders. Observe often. Then deliver with confidence.

Let your words—and your actions—be backed by knowledge and authenticity. That way, when people remember your words, they’ll remember your name and your impact—just like an Evergreen Song.

In summary, in a world where everyone’s talking, the real ones are listening and waiting for the right moment to speak. Be that person.

(Yeah, I actually copied that last line from ChatGPT.) But you get the logic 😉)

You don't have to be the loudest... but make sure everyone listens when you speak...

So, the ChatGPT prompt i promised earlier,

“Cinematic overhead shot of me, standing with hands in my pockets, a brick city sidewalk, wearing a grey formal blazer. Motion blurred crowd rushes past around me. Moody lightning 35mm film look. Shallow depth of field, sharp focus on me. Ration portrait 4:3, no changing face.”

Don’t forget to add your desired image. Have fun. 😉 

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